Luisa’s story

You’re writing your autobiography. What’s your opening sentence?

“Once upon a time, there was a little girl who always laughed…that was   me.”

I was a little girl that strangely liked to go to school, to stay with other children.

In today’s age, the facts of life didn’t take away my desire to be myself, <that’s life!> . I still like laughing and smiling, my soul will always be itself at all ages.

This autobiography could start in another ways? Oh no, it was a nice period, the most important, which formed the base of my character.😀

Only three?

What are three objects you couldn’t live without?

If we go to see basic needs, we could want little, but living our life in a society, it’s different: more needs depend from customs and traditions and surely, the relationships with others.

When I’m hungry, I get to buy something in a grocery, paying with money. To move, to study, to wear, always need of 🤔…Money is the first object I couldn’t live without… Sometimes I don’t need, but rarely.

The second is, means of communication, direct, private or public, but social too. How is the world today, without the possibility of communicating with others, a person could die, not physically, but socially and it is worse!

And then, the third…A good pair of sandals, comfortable for summer, and warm shoes in winter.😄

Live on my own

What experiences in life helped you grow the most?

“Genesis” acrylics on canvas, LF,

There has been a moment in my life, at the start of my work experiences that I wanted go to something of different, I didn’t know what, at the end, I made an artistic job, what I thought, goldsmith’s art, I was appreciate, but I needed else.

I still lived with my parents and this dress was tight on me. This situation, together my predisposition to movement and the curiosity for  always new things, gave me another job and the opportunity to go to live in another city, Vicenza.

In Vicenza, I learned to live on my own, out of the influences of my parents… 250 km were sufficient😄.

For better or for worse, it was an important experience, an now I couldn’t be what I am…🤔I still need to grow and to learn many things, that, in this second phase of my life, are equally difficult, because now, I’m learning to live on my own, compared to the rest of the world,

Where is my star?🌟

Do you believe in fate/destiny?

“I create my destiny, leaving the fate to the sky”

Looking for my destiny, there is a star will show me the way?

And then, we will be on our way.

Fate isn’t under control, like in an ancient story, we are the heroes, we fight to go against adverse fate, the gods will not be able to overcome us.

Fate?no, I’m the master of my life.

I break the scheme!🌟

Yes, sure

Do you enjoy your job?

My job, actually, is a creative activity in support to Fiore, to develop his fitness personal training…

I’m his artistic director, mmm this sound me better😁.

I make for him videos, write posts, brochures,waiting he will be famous, at that point, I’ll retire to live on income of a famous husband…I’m more than creative, I’m brilliant!😆

When we’ll back at home, in camping, during July and Agost, we will propose live fitness, it will more fun.

Goodbye Milan

Describe a phase in life that was difficult to say goodbye to.

Milan Duomo

🎼…oh Mia Bela Madunina,

Che te brilet de lontan🎶

🎶Tuta d’ora e piscinina

Ti te dominet Milan…🎵

When I left my home in Milan, was difficult. This city, where I was born, in that moment, I felt part of me.

Many times, in the past, I tried to go away; because also if Milan is a big city and gave me, until from when I was little, everything I needed, studies, job, friends, for my mind was always the starting point to create my own life, out of that of my parents and in my imaginary, there were other places.

How many times I’m come out from that small entrance door, to go in my new homes, one time in Desenzano del Garda, a second time in Vicenza…I’m gone and back many times, at the end, this was my home.

Home sweet Home

Years after, I understood the value of this house, but I decided to go away forever, cause it was very expensive. I left it quickly and angrily, as if I were running away.

🎶Sota ti se viv la vita

Se sta mai coi man in man…🎵

😃A curiosity

A cat day…meo😸

If you could be someone else for a day, who would you be, and why?

“playing improves life…and now I’m playing”

This morning I wake up a little strange, tonight I dreamed to be a cat meo, and now, It seems to be really a cat, meo…what?😳 I said meo? Meo meo meooooo, I am a cat! Like Grisú, why? And now?

Grisú: meo me= hi Lou

Meo me= Hi, Grisú

Me me miao= I’m hungry… Where is the breakfast?

Fiore: Grisú, here, there is the food!

Grisú: Meo meo= come with me, let’s have a breakfast!

Lou: Miao= Oh thank you.

Grisú: < me me meo meo = now let’s rest.

Lou: Miao and then?

Grisú: meo me me= let’s eat another time

Lou: meu= yes and then? Relax again?

Grisú: meu, you’ll understand, now, that you are a cat, as we, cats, are capable to enjoy life, taking life with relaxation and humans don’t.I look always their behaviours, too much reasoning produces much stress.

Who is more advanced? We let them believe it to be, because they need to feel this way.

This cat day, for you, will be interesting, meo.😼

Ban “not”

If you could permanently ban a word from general usage, which one would it be? Why?

Negation in sentences would seem detrimental to our understanding.

When we use in a phrase “not”, we send a negative message and “is not” of utility  ” it’s useless” ( better)  to understand  the real message of a sentence.

In fact, “not”  emphasizes the last word in the phrase: for example < do not fall> < don’t go to war> the meaning is ” fall” ” war” because  the brain forgets the first words and memories the last. This theory is also used in graphics, in the writing, in stores.

Another curiosity: if we put “not” at the end of the phrase, let ‘s deny what we previously said. In Italian, sometimes, at the end of a phrase, one person talking to another says “no?= Do not you agree?” …better not to say it 🤫 ops…better avoid denial.🤗

<Hey Luisa, follow your heart>

What advice would you give to your teenage self?

<<A message in the bottle, cradled by the waves, I sent you in my previous life didn’t you see? No? You were distracted from your thoughts on what to do to fulfill yourself in life. It was enough to silence your mind, for a while, and your heart would have connected with mine… The beats in unison would show you what I’m seeing now and so, in my actual life, I wouldn’t fight the insecurities of a teenager again.

The message? It’s: ” follow your heart”.

You know, what it means. You have a lot of imagination, ability to achieve, but your insecurity confuses you. Stop to rationality. Don’t listen to others too, the life is yours, built it your way, and don’t stop!

Now, I’ll wait that, swimming in the sea of life, you’ll take that message, making your journey more peaceful.

< If our ages are dimensional lines that travel in parallel, in a single life, tomorrow, when I wake up, I’ll feel me…different, maybe or maybe not.

On the other hand, if I got that bottle, at my age, means it was for me, nothing to change.>

But you, Luisa, follow your heart anyway.😘>>

Be repetitive

What bores you?

There is more than one thing bores me. Always stay at home, spending a lot of time during the holidays sitting at the table, go to the grocery store and stay in places where there is no social life and the territory to explore is finished, because it’s already known to me.

The last one, that comes in my mind and it is the worst, for me: be repetitive!

Premise that, I can also react to states of boredom…  At home I have to do many things, interesting too; Fiore can go to the grocery store😉 and when we’re in isolated places, let’s go for the next! And be repetetive? It’s enough to, change. But sometimes isn’t possible.

When I went to school, I always walked the same street, boring but I had to go through. Boring repete the same work, with the same movements or make the same activities. it’s definitely worse: every time my job was repetitive I leaved it. I prefer to do different things, that can be more difficult, because,  the new is unknown, but always the same thing is boring!😴